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Original message:314 days 11 hours 33 minutes ago
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Member: dcunning30

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I don't understand this. They happen to be twins, separated by birth.

"Hey, we were born on the same day! What a coincidence!"
"And we even kinda look alike, wow isn't that cool?"
"Yea, let's get married!"
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Reply:314 days 11 hours 29 minutes ago
Member: guitaress
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yuk! Have they done it yet? I hope not. oooohhh!
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Reply:314 days 11 hours 5 minutes ago
Member: Xarkzila
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I would expect that if they actually got married as the article says, they probably would have done the deed on their honeymoon, (If not sooner as we all know...)

Brother and sister are a little close, but it has been determined that in most cases, cousins are not. (Though the doctors doing this study could have been from West Virginia...) Of course it's not the sex but the result that can be disastrous.
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Reply:314 days 9 hours 57 minutes ago
Member: SATAN
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jesus....thats... really really horrible! imagine loving someone enough to marry them and then finding this out, and having to stop the romantic relationship.... oh god... thats just sick..... he was doing nasty things to his sister!
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Reply:314 days 9 hours 42 minutes ago
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Getting married is not an easy decision and getting divorced is even harder but usually based on reasons that are clear but to get married and then having to separate for something like this, tough. I mean the jokes are obvious but to lose like this, wow. You can't just walk away because you are related and you can't stay because you are related, I guess I just feel bad for these guys. Oh well maybe they should take up guitar and form a band.
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Reply:314 days 9 hours 25 minutes ago
Member: Evil Kitty
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I think they both will need some serious counseling. I know when I got married the state required blood testing - you would think that the genetics in the blood would have suggested something was awry. If the psychological scars from sleeping with you sibling weren't deep enough - they each just lost the "love of their lives". Thank goodness the names were protected - imagine the comments they would get on the street. Poor souls.
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Reply:314 days 9 hours 17 minutes ago
Member: Xarkzila
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Well, blood tests aren't used to determine relationships. They don't do any DNA testing. They were originally in place to screen for diseases and possible incompatibilities that could result in birth problems. It wasn't until fairly recently that we could do DNA testing and blood tests have been around a LOT longer.

I'm with the most recent comments here... They have a tough road ahead.
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Reply:314 days 5 hours 50 minutes ago
Member: Evil Kitty
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Xark,

I am no Dr - but shouldn't a blood test for birth incompatibility show a problem for blood from this close a relation (Twins?) - I mean unless it is an old wives tail I have heard offspring from relatives would result in some serious birth defects etc... This coupled with driving through West Virginia have kept me away from hot cousins (kidding).
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Reply:314 days 8 hours 18 minutes ago
Member: dcunning30
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Sorry to post so lighthearted about this. After reading hippieway's comment, i began thinking this just sucks in a very bad way. I suspect for their emotional and mental health, they would probably have to part ways and not be in each other's lives at all. I can't see them continuing a brother-sister relationship after all of this.

But it still confuses me. I wonder how they could fall in love, spend time courting and not have warning signals be raised. But then again, there's that saying, "love is blind".
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Reply:314 days 7 hours 37 minutes ago
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i want to make a joke soo bad, but i just cant, it really WOULD feel wrong. and when you make SATAN feel bad... something serious has happened...
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Reply:313 days 19 hours 56 minutes ago
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im jus trying to lighten up this dark moment in history with a joke.....aaaaaa....the little.....she....he....how?!...why?!.....sex?....EWWWW!!!
what would that make the kids???????????? brother/sister/cousins???? so not right.....just sick....sick....*vomit*...
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Reply:313 days 15 hours 41 minutes ago
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Biology flash:

Twins don't necessarily look more alike than non-twin siblings. This guys being of opposite sexes, I'm pretty sure they don't look much alike, not only because of the sex difference but because they MUST come from different eggs and different sperm (by the same dad, at the same time. Rare but happens when the mother releases two eggs from her ovaries instead of one). Therefore there might easily not be enough similarity to raise curiosity. Being separated at birth means they probably didn't meet their parents (I didn't read the article), they possibly don't know their story and they don't have the same last name.


Offspring from siblings are prone to getting serious defects, due to the high possibility of getting a full pair of the exact defective genes (nobody is genetically perfect, having two different copies of genes is what keeps us going).


Blood tests, like Xark said, are meant to screen for things like Rhesus incompatibility (that can kill a mother at her second child if not treated), blood diseases like sorts of anaemia and other defects and complications that can occure often enough to matter, even when the parents are UN-related. When the parents are closely related, nearly everything can go wrong.
Even DNA tests look for abnormalities like missing or surplus chromosomes. To identify siblings, it's no longer "simple" DNA tests that are necessary. It's a whole DNA fingerprint that is necessary and that's not done by default because the odds of siblings getting married is nowhere near high enough to justify it.

/flash




It sucks to be them. Poor guys. They can still stay married and avoid having a child of their own and adopt one instead.
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Reply:313 days 10 hours 32 minutes ago
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I'm aware the brother and sister have to be fraternal twins. However, fraternal twins can very much have a close resemblance to each other, notwithstanding male/female differences. But nevertheless, a resemblance would be expected, unless one or both had plastic surgery. Couple a resemblance with identical birth dates, I expect some sort of red flags should have been raised.
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Reply:312 days 16 hours 10 minutes ago
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I've seen several cases of siblings that look nothing like each other, taking a lot after a different parent each. It's not so rare. In the end all there is left is their birthdate. Then again, many babies are born in one day, so you have to add the hospital they were born in (if they know it) and that still requires them to know they are adopted or that their parents split right after birth, taking one child each, because even in the same hospital several babies are born in a day and I myself would still attribute it to freak-coincidence unless someone else pointed out to me the possibilitity of relation.
Add to that the fact that adopted people often don't know much (if at all) about their origin (as the article suggests) and you got a perfect setup for that sort of accidents.



What gets me thinking is sperm- and egg-donors anonimity. There you have a more seriuos problem that will cause more unknown-sibling issues in the future, when the tube-kids grow up.
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